Dear Miss Lynch,
You need to change some things...
This is a bit of a rant, and I hope that doesn't discredit the validity of the points I'm trying to make here, the main one being...
* It's okay to hurt your clients if that is their fetish, but it's not okay to harm them *
I've blind-copied those in related industries including verbal humiliation, fetishism, and a pro Domme or two. I've copied them not to associate them with you, but rather to distinguish them apart from you and hopefully garner their support for this mesage, and for a new website I plan to create and devote myself to (explained below). Just as those in the porn industry stand up against child porn, someone needs to stand against the kind of thing you do, when you're at your reckless worst, at least.
You seem to have added a new category to femdom, Suicide Mockery. I'm sure you didn't invent it but it's new to me. I purchased a clip of yours because I'm sexually addicted to female ridicule, but I didn't expect that you and your friend would look into the camera and suggest that I should blow my brains out, describing the gory details and how cool it would be, pausing for effect with an apathetic grin; or maybe, my mother should've aborted me; or maybe I should shoot my dick off, and without being able to masturbate anymore, I would surely go over the edge and perhaps finish the job. It was only several seconds, but it was in very bad taste. You have many clips, so I hope this is an isolated disregard for human life.
Please, edit that clip and take out the Suicide Mockery - and any others like it - would you? You'll still make your money.
Some men use verbal humiliation like others cut themselves - to cope with one form of pain, they indulge in another. One day though, some poor unstable fellow may take your sardonic, suicidal advice.
Let me be clear that this email is not a suicide note, nor is it any kind of threat. I am more stable than not, I'm just concerned for the despairing. From your popularity on Clips4Sale, you seem to have a powerful effect on men, but you wield it like a childish brat with a new toy or an evil magic wand that produces money.
You say that you don't hate men, only perverts. Well, I place men like me into three groups, on a continuum:
#1) There's the top third, men who appear to be successful - respectfully fit, a meaningful career, a sexy wife, a wonderful family, and dreams for the future. They just happen to be aroused by pain and/or ridicule. Some of these men might even be in therapy, trying to learn how to love women and themselves as all healthy men should, as they work through some childhood issues. Hello :-)
#2) The middle third are those who are deep into the humiliation thing and they love it. These are the men you can have; I don't care if they don't care. That said, I hope these men are moving toward group 1, not the group below...
#3) The last group is the scariest. They pay to drink your urine, and apparently you sell it to them. They pay to be hated because I suspect they deeply hate themselves; they're a time-bomb, and with some jeering from the likes of you they might finally do themselves in. Just think what it would do for YOUR future if some detective made the connection. I'm not a lawyer, but if it were my son, spouse or friend, I'd certainly go after you.
I'm in group #1 and I want to help others in my group, and those in group #3. I plan to launch a website to help those who are into humiliation and want out and/or struggle with self-esteem issues, and to expose people like you who don't seem to care about anything but making money at the blatant, psychological expense of others. I'm not attacking femdom wholesale; I might even defend it, with caution.
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Most sincerely, Ben CA, USA
p.s. Portland is a beautiful city, and I'm glad I discovered it before discovering you, else you would've ruined it for me.
